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Thursday, August 28, 2014

Being Open - Nature vs. Nurture Changes You

So I was looking through Facebook for interesting things and I look at my favorite news guy, Philip DeFranco, and he posted something that "broke my beep heart" in his words. It was a post based on this video below and think how about parents react to "coming out":


Think about how you live to be a good kid or better yet a kid whose attracted to a person of the opposite sex. In many situations, we live up to our parent's expectations, but that doesn't always happen to everyone. In this video, if you understand it conceptually and by truth in heart, you will see that parents aren't suppose to be this way to their child. I want to also note that religion must stay out of this topic because I know what you could be thinking right now [Something something something god made you this way], NO! It should be kept to yourself or better yet discuss with peers about how homosexuality is the next big thing even if religion obscures the existence of it or be really thoughtful if you were in this type of community. It's all out there with gay rights, same-sex marriage, and LGBT communities have a voice in society, United States society.  I support anyone no matter what they are. And if you don't think I explained my role to accept anyone by whoever they are or what they do, hear out to what Mr. Philip DeFranco has to say about this video.

Onto another topic called parenting. Taking birth of a child doesn't make you a parent. You have to earn that title. By nature, our hero Daniel in this video was born gay. By nurture, Daniel's parents instilled the beliefs of what they think to him, but did he really attach to what his folks think. Probably not. You will hear that the parents disown Daniel because he's gay. What kind of parents would raise a child from Age 0 to Age 19. Aren't legitimate parents suppose to love their kids unconditionally when they raised them well and buy them things they like. Both sides had an opinion, but the strongest opinion here was the right to be gay and be proud of who he was. I have sympathy for teens especially one who gets disowned on a reason that is inevitable and should be a positive realization. Hating on loved ones should not be the new normal because all it brings in is wide support from other communities who've had experienced these situations before or just gay supporters overall. It's an effect that fires back.

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